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I am an attached sexually dominant lady seeking a submissive alpha male for occasional erotic encounters. Standing at 5'8 with a curvaceous figure, come to bed eyes, long honey hair, and a wickedly creative mind, you will find yourself submitting to my seductive demands. I am a dominant lady with a good sense of humor. I like to laugh and joke, tactile, optimistic and caring. I am your typical sensual lady in private. The one who owns and directs your submission. I am looking for a discreet friendship for a start. Nothing serious in the beginning. Just some days out and possibly more with a man who loves nothing but female domination. I will be your hidden treasure and you will be my submissive partner. I find myself evolving each year in what I am looking for. As I get older and find out about myself more I find what I am looking for evolves also. I am sensuous by nature. I have a creative heart, an active mind, and a spirit that requires freedom. I have been told I am intoxicating, addictive, and like catnip for men. Engage with me in stimulating commitment and eagerness then you will know you have done the right thing for your own hidden sensual desire.
Female (47) Detroit, Michigan
I’m new to this. part of me wants to be a sub and the other half doesn’t want to follow directions. I’m open minded when it comes to trying new things. I’m looking for a connection and that’s the only way we can play. I’m not here to just fuck. Don’t waste your time thinking I’m an easy fuck.
Female (38) Detroit, Michigan
Very Freaky very mindful very fun lol hey I’m 5’7 200lb baddie from Detroit just trying to find out what I can get into and maybe have some fun with someone special
Female (38) Detroit, Michigan
Hey guys, I'm 411 weigh at about 170 a little bit on the chubby your side lol. You're to learn more about my kinks. I have a $$ kink.(look it up before you ask no I don't want to have sex for $$.) I am also a sub and would like a Dom. I'm into couples also so don't be shy to hit me up.
Female (25) Detroit, Michigan
Hey, I’m new ish to this kind of stuff, but willing to explore. I am a switch and bisexual, I tend to be more submissive with men and more dominant with girls. Just looking to chat with some new people for the moment but will to explore different connections. 🏻
Female (19) Detroit, Michigan
I need someone who is serious about conversing. I don't like flaky men. If you are serious about your lifestyle, then that is great. I am not into Racial stuff and most definitely not into women, under no circumstances 😒 😑
Female (50) Detroit, Michigan
== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com == 95% Submissive 25% Dominant == My roles == 95% Little 55% Rope Bunny 48% Brat 48% Pet 40% Degradee 30% Slave 25% Rigger 18% Masochist 18% Caregiver 0% Master/Mistress 0% Degrader 0% Sadist 0% Brat Tamer 0% Hunter 0% Prey 0% Pet Owner https://www.fetish.com/result/fhqY3Lvc/
Female (36) Detroit, Michigan
I am looking for someone with a medical fetish women or older men preferred. open to play and experiment getting into costume and playing the role of a nurse or doctor
Female (27) East Detroit, Michigan
just a bored college student that wants to explore her fantasies over the summer 💗 really gross kinks !!! if you're not a total degenerate we won't get along well. ultimate fantasy is rimming a sweaty hairy ass after a workout ♪ if you’re vanilla its not gonna work out, but if you have something crazy most girls would say no too, don’t be scared and tell me
Female (21) Detroit, Michigan
I have been in and out of the lifestyle since my 20’s and have been in a variety of D/s dynamics. I have been divorced for a few years, and have spent the time healing and rediscovering my submission. And it has been a ride 🎢. I am submissive to my core, it is not performative, it isn’t role play, nor can it be condensed to a scheduled scene. It’s the essence of who I am, as a feminine woman, it is me finally leaning into who I was always meant to be, instead of living in survival mode. I am deep, intense and crave connection, relational effort, a strong physical connection and also playfulness a sometimes I need a break from this serious brain. I am most interested in the deep mental and emotional aspects of a long term D/s relationship. While physical connection is equally important. I feel it starts with the mind. If you don’t want to take the time to get truly get to know me, I will lose interest fast. I believe a D/s or M/s relationship can be loving and romantic, this is not a transaction for me. I am very attracted to the idea of of eventually being in a 24/7 dynamic. I am a multifaceted submissive and I have been with different types of dominant partners over the years. I have come to know I need someone who can stay calm and firm in their authority, while still being caring and nurturing. Rules, consistency, structure and containment and discipline to me = love and care. A side of sadism will bring it all full circle .
Female (49) Detroit, Michigan
"So many perfect parts, never any perfect wholes." Mustaches to the front. I have a wristband for the rides. I like to cook and I'm funny sometimes. Please stop telling me I'm beautiful or stunning over a tiddy pic. It's actually revolting. If I dont respond, Im just simply not attracted to you.
Female (34) East Detroit, Michigan
I am a fun filled girl just exploring all types! I have a wonderful dom/boyfriend and we are open to so much more
Female (32) Detroit, Michigan
☆SUB SLUT •CNC ☆Edging •BDSM ☆Mark my body (including writing) ☆I love being watched •Public places ☆Cock Worship •impact play ☆Anal BREATH PLAY (by hand, belt, cord, rope) FREE USE Over Stimulation PSA: I'm a sapiosexual, so bring some intelligent banter, and witty conversation. I need charisma, I need humor, I need SUBSTANCE. A man I can learn from. integrity & masculinity, good character...these are all things i value far more than looks. Submission is not a choice either. it doesnt come INSTANTLY. I say that to say this: YOUR GONNA GET BLOCKED coming into my inbox calling me slut & acting as if your barking orders at me is gonna cause me to drop to my knees ✋️ I dont take orders from strange dick. Sorry, not sorry. thats not how it works. dont embarrass yourself, or make me do it for you. 👌
Female (39) Detroit, Michigan
I know my worth, and I expect to be treated accordingly. Confident, demanding, and unapologetically high maintenance. I appreciate generosity, consistency, and people who enjoy making my life easier. If you’re respectful, enjoy spoiling someone who expects the best, and understand that my time and attention are earned, not given freely, we’ll probably get along. If you’re looking for someone timid, keep scrolling. If you’re looking for someone unforgettable, introduce yourself properly.
Female (30) Detroit, Michigan
I'm on FeetFinder if that's your jam: StackMSole I'm Polyamorous. I'm also Demisexual so I need emotional connection and consistency to feel comfortable being sexual or intimate. I'm looking for potential future partners, not casual, play or sex-based interactions. Less than living together and marriage, more than hooking up. I'm also only interested in chatting with people in the Metro-Detroit area. I prefer a 24/7 Brat/Tamer dynamic over a bedroom only one. I'm experienced in the lifestyle and can spot the real Doms from the fake ones. I'm more interested in people who know how to do this ethically and respectfully versus someone wanting to have fun and play a role.
Female (39) Detroit, Michigan
I am married, white female 5' 8 " 225 lbs Looking for friends, NSA, bdsm lovers. I am open book. If you want to know something, just ask.
Female (58) Detroit, Michigan
Direct & selective I appreciate consistency, respect, and intentionality. I enjoy power exchange built on clear communication, mutual understanding, and earned trust. If you’re looking to debate my boundaries, we’re probably not a match. Observe first. Introduce yourself thoughtfully.
Female (33) Detroit, Michigan
I'm in an open marriage and I'm looking for a woman that wants to play with me... maybe join my husband and I...
Female (45) Detroit, Michigan
I'm sub leaning with a balance between being an obedient princess and having those inevitable bratty streaks. If you can handle the sass, you’ll definitely enjoy the loyalty. My second favorite "C" word is cuddling, and I take it very seriously. The Rules of Engagement: Pace: I value my offline time. Please don't double or triple text; I’ll get back to you when I can. Respecting this boundary is the quickest way to my good side. First Impressions: Let’s start with a genuine conversation. Please skip the pet names, ***, or honorifics right out of the gate. I value respect and maturity over instant "play." Safety: I don't host until a solid bond and trust have been established. My home is my sanctuary. Hard Limit: I have zero tolerance for race-based play or any related themes. Do not bring it up.
Female (26) Detroit, Michigan
Hi! I'm pretty new to the kink/fetish scene and am mainly looking for either friends or a relationship! I am the kind of person that prefers to take it at a slower pace and I prefer to chat a bit first before meeting in person.
Female (19) Detroit, Michigan
With over a decade of experience as a Domme and kinkster, I know exactly what I want, and precisely how to bring it out of you. Are you craving true submission that offers you deep release? Do you have unexplored fantasies of giving all control to a beautiful, powerful woman? Are you a pathetic loser needing to be drained and humiliated regularly ? Come to me. Becoming a devotee of the Goddess is pleasurable beyond your wildest dreams. The best place for you is kneeling, groveling, writhing at my feet. Send me a message telling me how you intend to be useful. Take note : I am a fun, sensual Mistress, but I am very strict and only entertain creatures who live to obey.
Female (38) Detroit, Michigan
Intelligence is the first thing I undress. My body may catch your attention, but my mind decides whether you ever deserve it. Seduce my intellect before you ever imagine you’ve earned the privilege of touching me. Charm fades. Wit endures. I am a woman of discipline, ambition, and refinement. I lead in every aspect of my life. Dominance is not something I perform—it’s simply who I am. Yet paradoxically, with the right man, I would gladly surrender control. Submission, to me, is not weakness. It is the highest form of trust, and trust is earned, never demanded. I appreciate old books, meaningful conversation, tailored suits, champagne and caviar on Sundays, and people who understand that true luxury is found in character, not price tags. Respect is the absolute minimum. Disrespect will be met accordingly. If you cannot speak to me with intelligence, courtesy, and intention, you belong beneath my red bottoms—not beside me. And gentlemen… possessing a cock has never been synonymous with knowing how to please a woman.
Female (36) Detroit, Michigan
You will address me as Coach/Mistress/Madam. Nothing else unless explicitly earned. Drawn to those who thrive in devotion and discipline. My dear Gentlebitches, many of you are living a meaningless life of a goldfish. Swimming round and round in an amnesiac daze to the world till you’re belly up and over with. You seek a purpose. You seek to know yourself, unadulterated mindfucks till you’re free of your mind shackles. You need a strong hand to mentor and shape. To love and hate. To guide and punish. I am righteous divinity. I am grace and fortitude. Entering my temple means choosing to elevate yourself without judgment. This isn’t for the weak and spineless. This is shadow work. Bring me your darkness, your cracks, your hopeless stink. My only demand? Complete trust and surrender. I take care of my pets as much they take care and invest in themselves. I will exile the unworthy without a second thought. The light is calling, will you show up to heal? 🌙🧎🏼‍➡️🧎‍♂️‍➡️🧎🏾‍♂️‍➡️ mood: misogyny is nothing but symptomatic resistance to healing 😌
Female (34) Detroit, Michigan

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I am an attached sexually dominant lady seeking a submissive alpha male for occasional erotic encounters. Standing at 5'8 with a curvaceous figure, come to bed eyes, long honey hair, and a wickedly creative mind, you will find yourself submitting to my seductive demands. I am a dominant lady with a good sense of humor. I like to laugh and joke, tactile, optimistic and caring. I am your typical sensual lady in private. The one who owns and directs your submission. I am looking for a discreet friendship for a start. Nothing serious in the beginning. Just some days out and possibly more with a man who loves nothing but female domination. I will be your hidden treasure and you will be my submissive partner. I find myself evolving each year in what I am looking for. As I get older and find out about myself more I find what I am looking for evolves also. I am sensuous by nature. I have a creative heart, an active mind, and a spirit that requires freedom. I have been told I am intoxicating, addictive, and like catnip for men. Engage with me in stimulating commitment and eagerness then you will know you have done the right thing for your own hidden sensual desire.
Female (47) Detroit, Michigan
== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com == 95% Submissive 25% Dominant == My roles == 95% Little 55% Rope Bunny 48% Brat 48% Pet 40% Degradee 30% Slave 25% Rigger 18% Masochist 18% Caregiver 0% Master/Mistress 0% Degrader 0% Sadist 0% Brat Tamer 0% Hunter 0% Prey 0% Pet Owner https://www.fetish.com/result/fhqY3Lvc/
Female (36) Detroit, Michigan
Hey, I’m new ish to this kind of stuff, but willing to explore. I am a switch and bisexual, I tend to be more submissive with men and more dominant with girls. Just looking to chat with some new people for the moment but will to explore different connections. 🏻
Female (19) Detroit, Michigan
Hey guys, I'm 411 weigh at about 170 a little bit on the chubby your side lol. You're to learn more about my kinks. I have a $$ kink.(look it up before you ask no I don't want to have sex for $$.) I am also a sub and would like a Dom. I'm into couples also so don't be shy to hit me up.
Female (25) Detroit, Michigan
I am looking for someone with a medical fetish women or older men preferred. open to play and experiment getting into costume and playing the role of a nurse or doctor
Female (27) East Detroit, Michigan
Very Freaky very mindful very fun lol hey I’m 5’7 200lb baddie from Detroit just trying to find out what I can get into and maybe have some fun with someone special
Female (38) Detroit, Michigan
I’m new to this. part of me wants to be a sub and the other half doesn’t want to follow directions. I’m open minded when it comes to trying new things. I’m looking for a connection and that’s the only way we can play. I’m not here to just fuck. Don’t waste your time thinking I’m an easy fuck.
Female (38) Detroit, Michigan
I need someone who is serious about conversing. I don't like flaky men. If you are serious about your lifestyle, then that is great. I am not into Racial stuff and most definitely not into women, under no circumstances 😒 😑
Female (50) Detroit, Michigan
just a bored college student that wants to explore her fantasies over the summer 💗 really gross kinks !!! if you're not a total degenerate we won't get along well. ultimate fantasy is rimming a sweaty hairy ass after a workout ♪ if you’re vanilla its not gonna work out, but if you have something crazy most girls would say no too, don’t be scared and tell me
Female (21) Detroit, Michigan
I know my worth, and I expect to be treated accordingly. Confident, demanding, and unapologetically high maintenance. I appreciate generosity, consistency, and people who enjoy making my life easier. If you’re respectful, enjoy spoiling someone who expects the best, and understand that my time and attention are earned, not given freely, we’ll probably get along. If you’re looking for someone timid, keep scrolling. If you’re looking for someone unforgettable, introduce yourself properly.
Female (30) Detroit, Michigan
I am a fun filled girl just exploring all types! I have a wonderful dom/boyfriend and we are open to so much more
Female (32) Detroit, Michigan
"So many perfect parts, never any perfect wholes." Mustaches to the front. I have a wristband for the rides. I like to cook and I'm funny sometimes. Please stop telling me I'm beautiful or stunning over a tiddy pic. It's actually revolting. If I dont respond, Im just simply not attracted to you.
Female (34) East Detroit, Michigan
Direct & selective I appreciate consistency, respect, and intentionality. I enjoy power exchange built on clear communication, mutual understanding, and earned trust. If you’re looking to debate my boundaries, we’re probably not a match. Observe first. Introduce yourself thoughtfully.
Female (33) Detroit, Michigan
I'm a pretty chill and down to earth person. Just moved back to the romulus area and looking for some female friends and fwb😜 If you wanna get to know me more hmu on Snapchat @brookiecookieoz
Female (26) Detroit, Michigan
🖤 Mistress Roanna Widow 🖤 I don't chase—I summon. Wrapped in black lace, shadow, and silence, I embody dark feminine power. Mystery is my language, confidence is my crown, and respect is the price of entry. Drawn to the gothic, the occult, and the beauty that exists between darkness and desire, I value loyalty, intelligence, and those who understand that true power is earned, never demanded. If you're looking for someone ordinary, keep scrolling. If you're drawn to the darkness... welcome. 🕯️ Goth | Dark Mistress | Spiritual | Unapologetically Divine | Enter at Your Own Risk 🖤
Female (45) Detroit, Michigan
I'm still working out who I want to be... Truth be told, I never thought I would be here still which is depressing, but true lol I have enjoyed reading, art, the outdoors, fortnite, swimming, music, movies... I mean... just ask if you wanna know something
Female (35) Detroit, Michigan
hi there! I have been just recently out of a relationship so I've decided I would start taking a look at the world around me and re exploring the things.
Female (33) Detroit, Michigan
I'm in an open marriage and I'm looking for a woman that wants to play with me... maybe join my husband and I...
Female (45) Detroit, Michigan
Intelligence is the first thing I undress. My body may catch your attention, but my mind decides whether you ever deserve it. Seduce my intellect before you ever imagine you’ve earned the privilege of touching me. Charm fades. Wit endures. I am a woman of discipline, ambition, and refinement. I lead in every aspect of my life. Dominance is not something I perform—it’s simply who I am. Yet paradoxically, with the right man, I would gladly surrender control. Submission, to me, is not weakness. It is the highest form of trust, and trust is earned, never demanded. I appreciate old books, meaningful conversation, tailored suits, champagne and caviar on Sundays, and people who understand that true luxury is found in character, not price tags. Respect is the absolute minimum. Disrespect will be met accordingly. If you cannot speak to me with intelligence, courtesy, and intention, you belong beneath my red bottoms—not beside me. And gentlemen… possessing a cock has never been synonymous with knowing how to please a woman.
Female (36) Detroit, Michigan
I’m a 41-year-old Black BBW who enjoys living life, laughing often, and making meaningful connections. I’m open-minded, adventurous, and appreciate someone who knows what they want. While I enjoy exploring the kink lifestyle, I’m looking for more than casual play. I’m especially drawn to a provider-minded man who finds fulfillment in leading with generosity, protection, consistency, and care. I appreciate a provider/princess or financial-provider dynamic built on trust, mutual respect, communication, and genuine chemistry. If you’re emotionally mature, confident, and enjoy creating memorable experiences while investing in your partner’s happiness, I’d love to get to know you.
Female (42) Detroit, Michigan
I'm very new to this, might delete this app. I'm a switch and I really like to be took care of, I also like to overstimulate people till they cry.
Female (18) Detroit, Michigan
♒ Aquarius | Lesbian A little hard to read, a little easy to make laugh. I appreciate genuine people, good conversation, and the kind of connection that doesn't feel ***d. I could tell you everything about me here, but where's the fun in that?
Female (24) Detroit, Michigan
Greetings from your Mistress Queen….Sugar Baby….Brat….and also a perfect date (I am versatile) 😊 Not new to this world I have experience guiding loyal slaves, devoted subs, and eager ***s who understand that respect is the foundation of every dynamic. I enjoy confidence, wit, and watching someone earn every bit of my attention. My style is playful, clever, and a little mischievous. I'll laugh with you, tease you relentlessly, and expect you to keep up. Good communication, consistency, and mutual respect are far more attractive than empty bravado. Sugar Baby / Brat ✨ Sweet with a little sparkle and just the right amount of sass. ✨ I appreciate good conversation, thoughtful gestures, and people who know how to make life a little more exciting. I enjoy fine dining, spontaneous adventures, cozy nights, and being treated like the prize I am. I believe the best connections are built on honesty, respect, chemistry, and generosity. If you're confident, kind, ambitious, and know how to spoil someone who appreciates it, we'll probably get along just fine. I'm looking for someone who enjoys creating memorable experiences, can make me laugh, and understands that mutual appreciation goes both ways. Low effort gets low energy. Thoughtful messages get my attention. I appreciate people who know how to introduce themselves, can hold a conversation, and understand that consent is key.
Female (45) Detroit, Michigan
im 5"7 weigh 190 very curvy and in shape ( gym rat ) very very clean individual very trim and all pink ! .My favorite color.
Female (51) Detroit, Michigan

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