I first began exploring my submission and D/s dynamics in my 20s, but stepped away when I entered a vanilla marriage. After my divorce a few years ago, I felt a strong and steady pull to return to this part of me and I haven’t looked back since. I’ve done some growing, some healing, and a lot of reflecting… and I know now more than ever that this journey isn’t over for me.
I am multifaceted, I call myself ‘submissive’ first but I do think I have some slave tendencies and am also a bit of a masochist😈. So if you are a bit of a Daddy/Master/Sadist? You might also be that multifaceted Dom I have been hoping to experience☺️.
I do LOVE bedroom kink and I am a very sexual person, I want it to be an integral part of our relationship but for me it is not the foundation. I’m seeking a D/s dynamic that weaves into daily life. I crave structure, rules, obedience, discipline, care, consistency and an intentional Dom. He desires the same intensity I do just in the polar opposite way. My submission is not surface level, I mean I can submit to just anyone but I don’t. It comes not just from kneeling and sheer obedience but also through my devotion, loyalty, affection and can even be somewhat of a spiritual experience for me.
Because of my sensitive nature, I know I need a Dominant who carries certain Daddy Dom traits, someone steady, nurturing, and emotionally attuned. But I also need him to be firm in his own authority. The Dominant I’m drawn to leads with care and confidence, not ego. He knows where he’s going, and because of that, I can trust where I’m being led. That kind of presence makes it safe for me to fully let go.
I believe a D/s relationship can be the foundation for a beautiful, fulfilling and adventurous life together. One where both partners are seen, valued, and evolving, where my surrender empowers him to lead fully, and his leadership inspires me to open even more deeply
.
If you have made it this far, you will see I am not the typical kinkster here. I seek the mental and psychological aspects along side the sexual. I am extremely deep, as a thinker and lover but also can be quite playful. I take my time when it comes to getting to know someone, with sex and trust. I am a slow burn, so if you need someone faster, I am not the one for you.
